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Tablet Android Honeycomb Terbaik Murah

2011-07-24T22:48:00.000+07:00

Tablet Android Honeycomb Terbaik Murah

Saat ini banyak orang yang mempunyai tingkat mobilitas tinggi.   Di saat itu pula mereka harus mengerjakan sesuatu yang tentunya tidak   akan bisa dilakukan dengan PC (Personal Computer. Salah satu perusahaan ternama "Acer" mengeluarkan Android Honeycomb Terbaik Murah. Terbaik dan Murah, itulah yang diburu konsumen.

dengan kantong yang pas-pasan tentunya ini akan menjadi pilihan yang terbaik. Tidak ada salahnya jika kita mencoba untuk melihat speknya, siapa tahu nanti kalau ada rezeki bisa menyisihkan uang untuk membelinya.
Spesifikasi Acer Iconia A500 :
-Android Honeycomb 3.0
-1GHz Dual-core Processor (NVIDIA Tegra 2 Chip)
-1GB RAM
-10.1 inch LCD Capacitive Touchscreen dengan resolusi 1280×800 pixels
-5MP Rear-end Camera dengan kemampuan merekam video
-2MP untuk Video Call
-16GB onboard storage dengan microSD support hingga 64GB
-Graphics – NVIDIA GeForce
-Konektivitas – wi-fi,USB connector,Micro HDMI port
-Dimensions (HxWxD) – 0.5?x 10.2? x 7?
-Weight – 1.7 lbs.

Hosting murah berkualitas

2010-08-14T00:13:00.000+07:00

Hosting profesional indonesia yang murah. Murah dan nggak murahan.wah ini mah sudah jadi idaman semua orang. Ini berhubungan dengan layanan web hosting di Indonesia yang profesional dan murah.siapa sih yang nggak ingin memiliki hosting murah yang profesional.

Punya blog atau website yang online 24 jam.apabila kita sendiri yang mengelola hosting tentu bukan pekerjaan yang murah dan mudah.tentu akan banyak memakan waktu apabila kita sendiri yang mengelola server. nggak efektif dan efisien jika dalam satu server hanya ada website atau blog kita sendiri.
ada banyak perusahaan hosting saat ini di Indonesia.namun, jangan salah pilih karena hosting menentukan permorma dari blog anda.
Tentu anda akan jengkel kalau mendapati web anda nggak bisa diakses.
Tidak ada salahnya jika anda mencoba penawaran dari MustikaWeb yang mengandalkan Hosting Murah dan allowed auto Blog. Murah dan nggak murahan loch...
saya sendiri sudah mencobanya beberapa tahun ini dan kualitasnya sangat menjanjikan.
75.000 setahun tentu akan lebih mahal pengeluaran kita untuk beli rokok.
Silahkan meluncur saja,....

Six Stone Love Test

2009-11-19T11:51:00.000+07:00

How do we know that our love deep enough to lead us
side by side toward a lifetime, which leads to loyalty
perfect? How can we be sure that our love is mature enough
to be bound and the promise of marriage vows for a lifetime together
till death do us part?

First, test to feel something together.
Want to feel true love together, giving, extending his hand.
True love thinking about the other party, rather than thinking about themselves.
If you read something, have you ever thought, I want to
share this with my best friend? If you are planning something,
there you just think about what you want to do, or
what will please the other side? As Herman Oeser, a
German writer once said, "Those who want to be happy
themselves, do not marry. Because of the importance of marriage is to make
the other party happy. - Those who want to understand the other hand,
not married. Because the important thing here is to understand
partner. "So the first litmus test is:

"What we could both feel something? Do I want to be
happy or make others happy party? "

Second, test the strength.
I once received a letter from a man who falls in love, but it was
troubled heart. He had read somewhere, that the weights
someone will be reduced if people really fall in love.
Although he himself devoted all her love, she does not
weight loss and this is bothering him. Indeed
true, that the experience of love can also affect the state
physical. But in the long run true love will not eliminate
your strength, and even contrary will give strength and power
new to you. Love will fill you with joy and
makes you kreaktif, and want to produce more.
The second test case:

"Is the love we give new strength and fills us with energy
kreaktif, we love it or remove the power and energy
we? "

Third, test awards.
True love means also uphold the other side. A
girls may admire a bachelor, when he saw him play
ball and scored many goals. But if he asked himself,
"If I wanted her as the father of my children?", He replied
often be negative. A young man may admire a
girl, she saw being danced. But when he asked the
myself, "if I wanted her as the mother of my children?",
she was probably going to change in his views. The question is:

"Do we really have a high appreciation of the
others? What I'm proud of my partner? "

Fourth, examination habits.
On the day when a European girl who was engaged to come on
me. He was very worried, "I really love my fiance," she said,
"But I can not stand the way she was eating an apple." Thoughtful laughter
filled the room. "Love to accept other people along with
habit. Do not marry on the basis of understanding installments, and thought that
habits that will change at a later date. Likely
it will not happen. You must accept your partner as it is
along with all the habits and shortcomings. Question:

"Are we just love each other or like each other too?"

Fifth, test fights.
When a young couple coming couple say they want to get married, I always
ask them, if they ever really occasional fight
- Not just a small difference of opinion, but really
like a war. Often they replied, "Ah, never, sir,
we love each other. "I told them," Bertengkarlah
first - only then will you kukawinkan. "The problem of course, not
argument, but the ability to reconcile each other again. Capabilities
This must be trained and tested before marriage. Not sex, but the litmus test
which is pertengkaranlah experience "needed" before
mating. Question:

"Can we forgive each other and gave each other?"

Sixth, examination time.
A young couple came to me to be married. "How
long you love each other? "Ask me. "It's been three, almost four
week, "they replied. This is too short. I think at least one
so-so years. Two years is better. It's good for each other
met, not just on holidays or the day of the week with
dressed neatly, but also at work in the life
day-to-day, time has not neat, or shaving, still wearing T-shirts,
not wash my face, hair still tousled, in a tense atmosphere
or dangerous. There is an old saying, "Do not marry before
experience summer and winter together with your partner. "
If you are in doubt about the feelings of love, the time will
provide certainty. Ask:

"What we love has passed the summer and winter? Already
long enough we know each other? "

And let me give an obvious conclusion. Sex not
litmus test for love.
"If the young couple couple wanted to have sexual relations to find
whether they love each other, to ask them, "So
tiny love you? "If both of them thinking," Tonight we
must engage in sex - if not my partner will think that I
not love him or that he does not love me, "then fear
will likely fail is enough to banish the success of the experiment.
Sex is not a litmus test for love, for sex would be destroyed when
tested. Try to invent a self-observation of his own brother at the time
brother went to bed. Civil observe yourself, then do not
sleep. Or you sleep, and then no longer be observed
yourself. Was the case with the same sex as a touchstone
for love. Brother test, after that no longer want to love. Or
loving brother, then do not test. For the sake of love
alone, love needs to rein himself in bodily states
to be incorporated into the dynamics of marriage triangle.

Important Facts Around Penis

2009-10-30T10:10:00.000+07:00

Average penis size 2 (Indonesia) when erect is only 13 cm, 90% of men are dissatisfied with this measure.

98% of men in the world has a penis size is much smaller and weaker than they really could have.

At the age above 27 years, 97% of men lost their erections 20% capacity compared to when he was 20 years old.

There are 30 million men in the United States slowly began to suffer from 'erectile dysfunction', or impotence. And America is a developed country with health and nutrition levels are very good.

Having weak erections is the first sign of urinary & prostate disease.

Most men can not have intercourse more than 5 minutes before ejaculating due to weak PC muscles (the muscles supporting an erection).

Most men have blood circulation is very bad to the penis and testicles.

85% of women NEVER achieve orgasm during intercourse, and 72% of women admitted that they lied to their partner about orgasm is achieved, which in fact they never got it.

At the age of 50, 8 of the 10 men had tumors that developed in the prostate gland.

Referring to the survey conducted by Durex Condoms, 2 this new, 67% of women said that they are unhappy with their partners penis size.

Almost 90% of men or, rather, about 88.7% of men can increase their penis size if only they knew how.

The average male ejaculate after penetration between 2 to 2.5 minutes.

Search Engine Optimization

2009-10-30T09:51:00.002+07:00

SEO's like having sex with auntie google considers as a secret lover. Satisfactory and give pleasure to make love to a beautiful auntie google is it mandatory to obtain the position of having sex with SPG aka The Lovers of the Google is delicious and powerful. Sex styles worth a try to experiment to find variations in styles that can give great pleasure to tante sexy google.

SEO Dance styles tried 69 sex positions when having sex with auntie google with keywords peaceful election campaign in 2009 Indonesia. Position 69 is the position where the foot on the head and head in feet. Head used is "campaign", while the legs are used is "2009". Thus, a peaceful election campaign in 2009 to Indonesia 2009 Indonesia became a peaceful election campaign trying to make love with the style variations tante bugil google.

Position 69 is inspired because the style of a classic love already widely used. Auntie google could have been saturated with the style of a classic love where the head meets with the head and feet legs meet. Now it's time to give a touch when making love with a beautiful auntie love stories google for getting into a hot story. Style of the successful experiment of this 69 position sex let's experiment with style sex position 69 Indonesia 2009 election campaign peacefully. Hopefully these 69 positions to make sex more stylish and durable anti premature ejaculation.

Best Hot Sex Style

2009-10-30T09:40:00.002+07:00

With so many styles that you might love to know there are at least 7 styles and hottest sex couples preferred while having sex or making love.

Making love for Matthew and Yuli had become part of their daily lives. At the age of marriage is entered into this 4 years, their sex life was fine even though they already have 2 children.

Dedi a hard worker at a construction company admitted its satisfaction with the romance with Yuli, his wife. Hollywood lovemaking that we knew quite a lot but there are some styles that we both liked it even Yuli admitted becinta favorite with her husband's style during this.

1. Missionary Style

Style that one sex has been known since their days courting first. Although not up to having sex but a crushed Yuli position by Dedi had them run even though they know his name is Missionary style after they were married.

At Missionary style, she is under and the man above. This style is not recommended if your wife were able to understand because painful for her.

2. Women on Top, Men in Lower (Woman on Top)

For Yuli Style Woman on Top is the most favorite style. Yuli said, by being in the body of her husband, he can control himself and set a good position for him. Do love the style of this model, according to Yuli excited and quick to reach orgasm.

In the style of Woman on top, women hold more control than men. This romantic style is usually in the lakoni by a couple young couple who had just married.

3. Style Spoon

Love the style this one is similar to a spoon. Where sex positions are in addition to his wife lying next to her husband. Sementar husband was behind a wife and penetration with both hands free hand or arm around his wife from behind.

4. Hollywood Sex Dealing Spoon

This style is a husband and wife sleep together but berseblahan facing each other. One foot in the host's wife to give her husband a chance to penetrate.

Love the style is very suitable if your wife was pregnant.

5. Sitting position sex style

This style is usually done in a place hard enough repose. Wife's husband sat in his lap in a position facing each other. Then the husband to penetrate from the front.

Love this style create a hands-free parties and opportunity is also a big flirt to each other. While penetration wife can put his arm around her husband or husband can hug his wife's body tightly.

6. Doggie Style

Doggie style is the style usually preferred by men because the wife's curves can be seen clearly and pelvis and buttocks look very beautiful wife made him very happy.

In addition, this doggie style wife makes the vagina becomes more tightly and the position of the penis can go full into the vagina. The weakness, if not done beforehand foreplay, the woman will usually feel very sick.

7. Non-penetrative sex

For an alternative style of sex that can be a good choice for emergency cases is a style of non-penetration sex. Sex is not by inserting the penis into the vagina but in a way to stimulate or hugging each other until orgasm occurs.

For Yuli and Dedi, sex styles are very much just a real headache. Now they have a favorite 7 style, and always love them back from the day kehari.

Whatever style you choose, nikamtilah your sex life with your partner. If you are not currently find the best style for you both continue to explore by trial and error the various styles that you might both enjoy.

Employee Engagement is Not Enough

2009-10-29T15:56:00.003+07:00

The topic of employee engagement is getting more attention today as leaders look toward 2010 and start to think about how to grow their businesses while simultaneously motivating and retaining high performing employees. The popularity and ease of using survey tools has led many firms to jump-start this effort using traditional employee survey data.

This brings technology front and center of many employee engagement initiatives because, in most cases, data are being collected from online surveys, and reports are provided using some form of technology. In this paper, I make the case that traditional employee engagement approaches may not be what you need. This is because, for some subsets of your employee population, working to increase traditional employee engagement survey scores may backfire and lower performance. In today's fragile economy, backfiring is not a good strategy. Lowering performance is particularly problematic. Thus, understanding the conditions under which employee performance may increase or decrease is key for success.
Valour Pulse is the name I've given to a diagnostic process developed from 20 years of work on the drivers of firm performance. Valour is an acronym that stands for the four key constructs:

Val stands for the degree to which employees feel valued by their managers and peers.
O represents the degree to which employees feel a sense of ownership in their job and in their company.
U is for sense-of-urgency or the culture or atmosphere for moving forward in a fast-paced environment.
R reflects the rewards that employees feel they receive and that rewards are fair.

The valour survey provides a diagnostic tool that shows the percentage of employees that are highly engaged, at risk of turnover, or disengaged. It also highlights those employees for whom small changes will lead to higher performance. Lastly, it shows what you do not get with traditional approaches to engagement, i.e., which percentage of your employees are in an entitlement state and are most likely to resist change. It is the last group, the entitled demographic, that will experience lower performance by increasing scores on traditional employee engagement items.
The valour survey work focuses on not just the question of how many employees in your organization are engaged, but what they are engaged in. This is critical because what employees are engaged in doing at work is more important than if they are, or, are not engaged. For those in the entitled group, you first have to lower their value, ownership, and rewards (val-o-r). By doing this, you instill a sense of urgency for change. Our experience to date with clients shows that urgency is more difficult to manage and change than val-o-r.
We have not met an organization or manager who can move the entitled person from entitled to fully engaged without first lowering val-o-r. That's because the entitled individuals are accustomed to getting rewarded for not doing much at work. Why would they change? They need a burning platform, or some incentive to move and that does not come from giving them more rewards. Keep in mind that in a traditional employee engagement survey, a manager would be coached to simply raise the scores of these individuals because most engagement surveys do not assess urgency; they measure aspects that could be bundled into the val-o-r buckets.
This would explain why, recently, a company that won the Most Engaged Company of the Year award later that same week declared bankruptcy. "Engaged in what?" becomes the important question to answer. People with an entitlement mindset are engaged in doing less work, doing less focused activities and, perhaps, in resisting the type of changes needed to drive the company forward. They might be converted by using the intervention described above or they may need to be managed out of the organization.

Special Loving People

2009-10-07T11:23:00.003+07:00

It is painful to love someone, but not loved by him. But more beautiful to love and never find the courage to tell them how you feel.
Only need one minute to destroy a person, an hour to like someone, one day for love someone, but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.

Maybe God wants us to meet with wrong people before meeting. So when we finally meet the right person, we will know how precious these gifts.
Love is when you take away the feeling, patience and romance in a relationship and found that you care about him. A sad thing life is when you meet someone who very important to you, only to find that eventually become meaningless and you should let him go.
When the door of happiness closed, another opens. But sometimes we look so long at doors have closed, so we do not see another door has opened for us.
The best friend is a friend where you can sit with him and was lulled, and never say anything and then walked together. Feelings like that are the sweetest conversation you’ve ever felt.
It is true that we do not know what we get until we lose it. But it is also true that we do not know what is missing until it exists.
Giving someone all your love is never guarantee that they will love you too!
Do not expect love in return, just wait until it grew in their hearts. But if not, make sure the love grows in your heart.
There are things you really want to hear but not be you’ve heard of people from those you want to hear. But not until you become deaf, even though you did not hear it from someone who says it from his heart.
Never say goodbye when you still want to try. Do not give up as long as you feel still be developed.
Do not ever say you do not love the person again, if you do not want to let go. Love come to those who still have hope although they have been disappointed.
To those who still believe, although they betrayed. To those who still want to
love, even though they’ve been hurt before and to those who have the courage and confidence to rebuild trust. Do view of the face, it can be deceiving. Do not see the of wealth, it could disappear.
Come to someone who can make smile, because a smile can make a day
dark seem bright.
Hope you can find someone who can makes you smile. There life time in
where you really miss someone. You want take them from your dreams and truly embrace him.
Hope you dream, go where you want to go, be in accordance with your wishes, because you lives only once and an opportunity to what you want. May you have enough happiness to make you happy.
Enough trials to make you strong, enough sorrow to keep you human
real and enough hope to make you happy.
Always put yourself in another position if you bahwaitu hurt you feel, maybe it
It also hurts people. The words are careless can lead to disputes, the words rough can create harm, words can be timely reduce tension.
The words of love can heal and fun. The beginning of love is to let those
we love be perfectly themselves and not forming them into our suit. With
In other words, we love our image is in themselves.
How old are you? 20 years, 30 years, 40 years or even 60 year. How long you have been through your life? How long again for the rest of your time menjalai life? Nobody who knows when we end this life.
The sun rises and chickens crowing signifies morning has arrived. Time for we are prepared to do the activity, as an employee, as a mother households, as a student, as a professional, and others, we begin a new day. Breakdown of the road makes us increasingly strained through life. Late to the office, that it
normal. Jobs pile up, the task of boss who makes his head dizziness, an attitude that men are not satisfactory, and many problems work we have to face in office. Or for students and students, attending tension or subjects is daily meals.
Nothing feels, noon to pick up … “time for a break .. eat ..” Stomach hunger, making people hard to think. The brain seemed to dead end. Jobs become increasingly hard to solve. The sun was was directly above my head. Really hot today .. Finally hrs break over, time to go back to work … full stomach, can
so we’re not even sleepy spirit work. Ouch but still a lot kok job unfinished. Start again we work, work and continue working until the end visible in
sebelahbarat … The sun has smiled and said good separated. Dark began to pick up.
So tired today. Jobs at the office a lot. Now streets jammed. When will I get home. Body aching, and loss it’s sticky. Its delicious warm water bath later. Fresh Fresh … There is a race car quickly in order to reach the home soon, and there is a running chase city bus rushed to I got home. Very dynamic life.
Dinner time arrived. The wife or our mothers may have prepare our favorite foods. “Ohh .. no chicken soup”. “Well soto artificial meat is very good mother “.’s husband praised her cooking, or the child’s mother praised the cooking. It’s too often we do. No doubt .. After dinner, relax while watching TV and
finally fell asleep … It was the quietness of the night has arrived. Tired
running activities today, makes us sleep soundly. Fell asleep again until the morning to pick up and start the day new again.
.. Ya life like that is life in the eyes of most of the guy. Wake up, shower, work, eat, and sleep is life. If our view about the meaning of life was limited, we may not no different from animals who are satisfied with breathing, eating,
drinking, doing routine activities, sleep. Day or night is same. Only routine … until finally meet death.
Indeed it is the life but not life in the sense that human luas.Sebagai obviously we have a difference in running life. Life is not just a routine.
Life is a chance for us to devote ourselves to the potential for others Life is a chance for us to share joy and sorrow with a loved Life is a chance for us to get to know other people Life is a chance for us to serve every human being
Life is a chance for us to love our wives, husbands we, our parents and our children, and love our neighbor Life is a chance for us to learn and keep learning tentangarti life. Life is a chance for us to always give thanks to
The power of life is … etc.
So many lives could we live. How many years you have been through your life? How many years you have lived the life of your routine? Will the rest of your time before his death you only sacrifice for a routine?
We do not know when death will come, maybe 5 years, 1 year maybe more, maybe another month, maybe tomorrow, or maybe 1 minute longer. Only God knows.
Look around us, there are few people who need us. They waited for our presence. They are waiting for our support. Children who always miss the time to play with people parents. Husband or wife who takes the time to share.
Parents who are always waiting for her children and grandchildren visit. And God faithful waiting thanksgiving from our lips. Be thankful every
moment that we are still committed to this life. Share with everyone Love the husbands, wives, parents and our children with a sincere and honest Make this life for serve others.
Not if you remember this phrase? We believe that life is to be enjoyed, every human being is to be loved, the things are to be used and opportunity is to be shared. We believe that the attitude attention and sharing is the best way to progress, happiness, and welfare in a free economy. In short “Life
IS TO LOVE AND SERVE. ”
Stay to keep LOVE AND SERVE … Since we will find REAL MEANING OF LIFE …
THE MEANING OF LIFE AND IN vast.

Why Should Grieving?

2009-10-07T11:23:00.001+07:00

Once, a man out of his yard, walking aimlessly in despair. He was unemployed for a long time. Family financial condition messy. While busy neighbors filled the house with luxury goods, he is still struggling to figure out how to meet basic needs of family, food and clothing. Her children had not been bought clothes, his wife often angry at not being able to buy goods worth households.

The man was bursting with this condition, and he was not convinced that the trip times the program will bring good fortune, the find a job. When the man down the street was quiet, her legs suddenly bumped something. Because he was curious bent and picked it up. “Uh, just an ancient coin that was dented,” he grumbled disappointed. Even so he took the coin out of a bank. “These coins should you take it to the collector of ancient money,” said the teller’s member suggestions. The man followed the advice Itupun the teller, bringing the coin to a collector. Fortunately, the collectors value coins worth 30 dollars. So much, he began to think what would he do with this windfall.
When passing a hardware store, he saw several pieces of wood on sale. He could make some shelves for his wife because his wife had said they had no place to store pots and jars. After buying 30 dollars worth of timber, the timber he was carrying and headed home. Along the way he passed a furniture workshop. Garage owner’s eyes are trained to see the wood that carried him. The wood is beautiful, good color, and renowned quality. Incidentally at that time there was an order furniture. He offered to pay some 100 dollars to him. Looked in doubt in the eyes of man, but the producers assured her and offers a ready-made furniture to choose him. Incidentally there was a wardrobe that would like his wife. She traded timber and borrow a cart to carry the cabinet. He was soon brought him home.
Along the way he passed a new housing. A woman who was decorating her new house looked out the window and saw the man pushing a cart containing a beautiful cabinet. The women lured and offered at a price of 200 dollars. When he seemed in doubt, the woman Itupun raised his offer to 250 dollars. The man agreed. Then return the cart to the craftsmen and went home.
In the village the door he paused for a moment and wanted to make sure the money he received. He reached into his pocket and counted the sheets worth 250 dollars. At that moment a robber out from the bushes, brandishing knives, seized the money, then fled.
The man’s wife happened to look and ran toward him and said, “What happened? You’re fine right? What was taken by the robbers? “The man shrugged his shoulders and said,” Oh, it’s nothing .. only a dented coin that I found this morning. ”
When we realize we never have anything, why should drown in excessive pain? In contrast, fitting for us to be grateful for any gift of life God has given us, because when he comes and goes we do not bring anything.

Get used to the small good thing

2009-10-07T11:22:00.001+07:00

Apparently life was simple wise … There’s someone when applying for work, picking up trash on the floor paper in the trash, and it showed by the lawyer-interview, and he got the job. It turned out to gain the respect is very easy, simply maintaining good habits.
There was a child was a student at a bike shop. One time there was someone who drove a bicycle damaged to be repaired at the shop they will be. In addition they will improve the bike, the child was also clean shiny clean bike. The other students laughed at his actions. The next day after the owner took the bike bicycle, the little sister drawn / taken at the work place.

It turned out to be a successful person is very easy, just have a little initiative.
A child said to his mother: “Mother was very beautiful day.” She said: “Why?” The daughter replied: “Because today’s mother was not angry.”
It turned out to have the beauty is easy, just have not got angry.
A farmer sent his son every day working hard in the fields. The friend said: “No need to send your son to work hard, keep Tanamanmu will flourish.”. The farmer replied: “I’m not trying to fertilize my plants, but I’m building my son.”
It turned out that nurture a child is very easy, just let her diligent work.
A soccer coach said to his disciples: “If a ball falls into the grass, how do I look?” Somebody said: ‘Find start from the middle. “There were some who said:” Look at the grass into the hollow. “And there who replied: “Look at the highest grass.” The coach gave the best answer: “step by step for the end of the grass over here until the grass over there.”
Apparently the road to success is easy, just do things step by step in a sequence, do not be jumping up and down.
Frog who lived in the fields said to the frog who lived at the curb: “Your place is too dangerous, stay with me.” Frogs on the street said: “I’m used to, too lazy to move.” A few days later the frogs “fields” to see the frogs’ edge road “and found that the frog is dead run over by a passing car.
It turned out very easily hold our own destiny, just enough to avoid laziness.
There are a bunch of people walking in the desert, all walking with a heavy, very miserable, only one person who walked with joy. Someone asks: “Why are you so relaxed?” He replied with a laugh: “Because I am a bit of baggage.”
Proved very easy to get joy, not just greedy and have just enough

Pleasant coincidence

2009-10-07T11:16:00.002+07:00

“Life is a game of boomerangs, the thoughts, words and deeds we turned towards us,
sooner or later with astounding accuracy ”
After five years struggling doctoral dissertation work, I’m finally in a hurry
lisanku test set. Trials will be held in California, and I have scheduled
flight through Minneapolis, where I had to change planes and go to John Wayne Airport

My first plane was late and soon I had to run fast to catch a plane
the California.Sedikit all the people who left dilorong.Aku must stop for breath
above the pavement running when I saw an old woman’s 50 objections brought her handbag.
I do not know why, but I looked at his face and shouted, “I’ll fly with the plane
567 to California? ”
He answered “yes.”
“Me too.” continued. “Give me your bag padaku.Aku would run ahead and told them to wait
You. “I took the bag and ran again.
I ran straight kepesawat and told a flight attendant that there was another passenger in the
behind me and asked him to hold the plane for him. I sat, still carrying his bag
and a moment later she arrived and found that he was the last person to ride a kepesawat
they have not closed the door and take off. After the horizontal plane, I gave the bag
him, and he smiled and thanked her.
I absolutely can not sleep in the hotel before the exam lisanku, and I arrived at the University at seven o’clock in the morning.
Board of examiners let me wait for an hour disebuah room before my dissertation defense
begins. I walked into the exam room and immediately saw the professors nervous in their austere robes.
When I slowly glanced at the faces of all members of the board testers, I saw the bright face of a
woman who was sitting right in the middle of the board. He looked at me, throwing a seductive smile like a
school girls and kearahku eye megerdipkan. It turned out she was a woman who had her purse my night -
bring. of course every time I stumbled on something a question, he tried hard to help me.

Grass Neighbors

2009-10-07T11:16:00.001+07:00

If a walk to the summit or to Lembang, as far as the eye could see, the look is the green carpet of tea plantations. Bath rugs are soft to spread God’s go play on it. Always tempted to be on it and not infrequently also no sense to have even a patch behind our house.

Even in human life. Millions of people with background and color their own lives. Someone who was single had a steady job with income above average, a father who has a lot of responsibility but should there come here for a bite of rice for her family, who had married someone who had higher education and career aspired to, but without the presence of a mandate among others, a wife who take care of the household until there was no time to carry out his dreams, and anyone with any background, not infrequently there are still many people who want to exchange positions.
“If I become the A or the X will be my life would not be this way and will always be happy if in a position” or a thousand other reasons wished.
The story of a swallow is a story that could be a reflection, when someone in a state does not have anything. Then when God offers a wealth, Karun started to imagine a wonderful life if all earthly pleasures are within grasp. And so Karun deceived by all the superficial pleasures, forgetting all the worship she always did. So He punishes and sink it with all the treasures which he loves more than the original lover.
A presupposition of a trove that ended under the ground with all his dreams.
A human being’s no escape from the name of a desire for a better life than being lived. Fatimah was a daughter of the Prophet Muhammad Azzahra. Narrated when the Apostle was visiting the house of Fatima, Fatima Rasul was found grinding shari’ah (similar grains) with a grinding stone hands, crying. Apostle asked what was so sad cause Fatimah, Fatimah replied that shari’ah grinding activities and homework that caused tanggalah crying. Then Fatima pleaded with his father, the Prophet Muhammad, to ask for Ali, her husband, finding a job khadimat just lighten around the home.
Apostle calmly answering questions beloved daughter Fatima. That God could, if willing, the mill is spinning his own shari’ah doing his job, or facilitate any housework. But God wants goodness written by Fatima own hands and eliminate the ugliness through all the routine household work. If all the charity continue to do so God will forgive her of something that has past and of things to come. Was not lost on the apostle describes the ease of death also breathe the beauty of the gardens of paradise, if a wife serving her husband with all my heart.
Two stories that we can make models in life, when his lack of fulfillment in life is lived present in our lives. God grant the desires Korah, when he wanted a beautiful life in the world by the end of life based on God’s earth drowned. because Karun could not hold the mandate God has given. But God so loved the Fatimah who was complaining of his beloved’s father, about the life she led, with the promise of heavenly life in the garden if Fatimah sincere with it.
It’s not a sin if we have a desire for a better life, while feeling that comes from seeing other people’s lives that we think is more beautiful than our own lives. Because it is God has made him feel wonderful human eyes to love what he wanted of the women, children, possessions are stacked, horses, cattle and rice fields. Because it is a pleasure all the world. All clearly stated in the Quran, letter Ali-Imran, verse 14.
So when a housewife saw another woman who quietly live their lives, without busy with all the household activities, is an equity release if there is a desire in the daily routine. As someone who was all alone to see other people who live their lives well established, with a husband or wife and beloved children, then the feeling anxious, when he will meet his idol and live a normal life layakanya a family harmony, it is commonplace. As a father who toil for sustenance, so that his family loved to get a decent life and seeing other people so easily get what they want without working too hard, then come longing for life when all was still easy to live without a big responsibility, it It is not a sin.
But if a human being sincere with what is being lived, God has preached more beautiful than all earthly pleasures. Available to her side of God’s heavenly garden where human beings live in eternal, with the holy couples and pleasure of Allah upon him, Allah is seeing his servants. And this was put in muktamat Allah Quran, letter Ali-Imran, verse 15.
The green grass was cool, beautiful it will always lure us to come and relax over hamparannya, let alone a beautiful lawn is our dear neighbor’s or nearby people. But friends …. grass they will always look beautiful in the eyes of us and will always arise a desire to own and love. The grass is not only green but instead it will look berpelangi, if we are thankful that we live with today. Because satan will always have a thousand ways to color the grass is always beautiful to look at our eyes. Wallohu’alam …..

LOVE

2009-10-07T11:14:00.000+07:00

One time, there was a woman who returned home to home, and
3 he saw a bearded man who sat in the front yard.
She did not know them all.
She said: “I do not know you, but I’m sure you all must have been hungry. Let’s go inside, I must have something to rebound stomach.”
The bearded man then asked, “Is your husband home?”
The woman replied, “No, he’s out.”

“Oh, then, we do not want to go. We will wait until your husband back,” he said
At dusk, when the family gathered, the wife told him all about that. The husband, initially confused by this incident, and he said to his wife, “Tell them, I have returned, and they all can come to enjoy this dinner.”
The woman then came out and invited them to enter into. “Sorry, we could all go together,” the man said almost simultaneously. “Why, why? Asked her for being surprised. One man said,” Name him wealth, “he said, pointing to a next priaberjanggut, and” while this is called success “, while holding the other bearded man’s shoulder.” While I myself called Love.
Now, try to ask your husband, who among us who can come to your house. “She went into the back, and told him the message out.
Her husband too was surprised. “Ho ho … nice. Well, Then bear, let you take the property into the house .. I want this penuhdengan Wealth.” His wife does not agree with that choice. He asked, “Honey, why invite the success kitatak it? Because it seems we need him untukmembantu success of our wheat crop.”
Apparently, their children listen to the conversation. He also joined mengusulkansiapa that will go into the house. “Is not it better if the kitamengajak Love that goes into? House we will be comfortable and warm penuhdengan Love.”
Husband and wife agree with the choice fruits of their hearts. “Well, get this masuksi Love .. And in this night, The Love malamkita became friends eat.” She went back outside, and asked the 3 men. “Who in the name antaraAnda Love? Come on, please log in, you be our guest tonight.” The Love rose, and walked toward the porch of the house ..
Ohho.ternyata, other bearded keduapria also participate.
Feeling strange, she told the itubertanya the Wealth and Success. “I only invited Love siCinta into, but why did you come too?” The two men who asked the same answers. “If you invite siKekayaan, or the success, then others will stay out. However, because you invited the Love, then, wherever Love goes, we’ll go be with him. Where there was Love, the Wealth and Success also will participate. Because, you know, we really blind. And the only who can see Love. Only he can show us the path of goodness, to a Straight Path. So, we need guidance as you walk through this life saatkami.
This is Love … Love …

A Tiny Baby Capable Only 6 Hours For Life, But …

2008-09-11T12:08:00.000+07:00

The following story is very touching feeling, quoted from the book “Gifts From The Heart for Women” by Karen Kingsbury.
A Tiny Baby Capable Only 6 Hours For Life, But …
A husband and wife live happily. Since 10 years ago, his wife are actively involved in activities against ABORTION, because in his view, abortion is killing a baby. After years of marriage-ladder, the wife finally became pregnant, so the couple is very happy. They spread the good news to families, teman2 and sahabat2, and the neighborhood.

All the people come rejoice with them. But after a few months, something bad happens. Doctors found the baby twins in her belly, a baby laki2 and women. But abnormal baby girl, and he might not live until the time of birth arrives. And the condition can also affect the baby’s condition laki2. So the doctor suggested to do an abortion, for untuksang mother and her baby laki2.
This fact makes the situation is reversed. Neither the husband nor the wife has depression. The couple was determined not to abort her baby daughter (they will kill the baby), but also worried about the health of babies laki2nya. “I could feel her presence, she was sleeping soundly,” his mother said through tears.
Surroundings provide moral support to the couple, saying that this is the will of God. When his wife closer to God, he suddenly realized that God must have a plan behind all this. This makes them more resilient.
The couple tried hard to accept this fact. They are looking for information on the Internet, go to the library, met with many doctors, to learn more about the problem of their baby. One thing they found was that they were not alone. Many other couples are also experiencing the same situation, where their baby can not live long. They also found that some babies will be able to survive, if they are able to obtain donor organs from other babies. A very rare opportunity. Who wants to donate an organ to another baby?
Long before their baby is born, the couple named the baby, Jeffrey and Anne. They continue to bow to the Lord. At first, they pleaded that the baby miracle recovery. Then they knew, that they should be begged to be given the strength to face whatever happens, because they believe God has a plan himself. Miracles happen, the doctor said that she was well enough to be born, but he would not survive more than 2 hours. The wife then discuss with her husband, that if something bad happens to her, they’ll donate his organ. There were two babies who are struggling to live and dying, who are waiting an organ donor baby. Sekali lagi, pasangan ini berlinangan air mata. They cry in the position of parents, where they are not even able to save Anne. The couple is determined to brave face the impending reality.
Birth day arrives. The wife successfully gave birth to two baby safely. At the moment these precious, her husband holding Anne with great caution, she looked at him, and smiled sweetly. Anne was a cute smile will never forget in his life.
There is no kata2 in this world who could describe the couple’s feelings at that moment. They are very proud that they’ve made the right choice (by not aborting Anne), they are very happy to see Anne, who was so little to smile at them, they are very sad that this happiness will end in a few hours. Kata2 really nothing that can represent the feelings of the couple. Perhaps only with the tears continued to fall in flow, the tears coming from their wounded souls ..
Both his grandfather, grandmother, and relatives of families have a chance to see Anne. Miracles happen again, she remained alive after 2-hour pass. Provide more opportunities for families to share their happiness. But she was not able to survive after six hours …..
The doctors worked quickly to make organ donation procedures. After a few weeks, the doctor they will contact the couple that they will be successful donors. Two babies had been saved from death.
The couple are now aware of the will of God. Although she only lived for 6 hours, but he managed to save two lives. For the couple, she is their hero, and the tiny Anne will live forever in their hearts …
There are 3 important points which we think of this story:
1. REALLY, it does not matter how long we live, one day or even a hundred years. Benar2 important thing is what we have we done for our lives, that will benefit others.
2. REALLY, it does not matter how long we have stood firm, one year or even two hundred years. Benar2 important thing is what our company over the years, the benefit to others.
3. Anne’s mother says “The most important thing for parents is not about how his son’s career in the future, where they live, or how much money they can make. But the most important thing for us as parents is to ensure that we do anak2 praised for her life hal2 , so that when the death of their pick, they will go to heaven “.
There are 4 possible responses from pihak2 who have read this story.
First, ignore / not care / do not understand this story.
Second, touched by this story, but did not do anything.
THIRD, touched by this story, intropeksi themselves, then change your outlook on life.
FOURTH, touched, intropeksi yourself, change your outlook on life, then moved on to make sense of his own life by giving meaning to the lives of others.
If at the many people who get this from your story, even one that includes categories FOUR numbers, this means you have successfully changed someone’s life, from simply “Life” to “The More Meaningful Life”. They were really lucky with your presence in this world.
Stop To Always Thinking of Self-Interest, Make Your Presence In the World Is As GRACE For Many People, and For Your Love orang2 Yang (Father, Mother, Brother / i, husband / wife, your Anak2, etc.)
“Let’s share with others … Show them that WE care!”

KISS (Keep It Simple Stupid)

2007-05-30T16:47:00.000+07:00

Apparently life was simple wise … There’s someone when applying for work, picking up trash on the floor paper in the trash, and it showed by the lawyer-interview, and he got the job.
It turned out to gain the respect is very easy, simply maintaining good habits.

There was a child was a student at a bike shop. One time there was someone who drove a bicycle damaged to be repaired at the shop they will be. In addition they will improve the bike, the child was also clean shiny clean bike. The other students laughed at his actions. The next day after the owner took the bike bicycle, the little sister drawn / taken at the work place.
It turned out to be a successful person is very easy, just have a little initiative.
A child said to his mother: “Mother was very beautiful day.” She said: “Why?” The daughter replied: “Because today’s mother was not angry.”
It turned out to have the beauty is easy, just have not got angry.
A farmer sent his son every day working hard in the fields. The friend said: “No need to send your son to work hard, keep Tanamanmu will flourish.”. The farmer replied: “I’m not trying to fertilize my plants, but I’m building my son.”
It turned out that nurture a child is very easy, just let her diligent work.
A soccer coach said to his disciples: “If a ball falls into the grass, how do I look?” Somebody said: ‘Find start from the middle. “There were some who said:” Look at the grass into the hollow. “And there who replied: “Look at the highest grass.” The coach gave the best answer: “step by step for the end of the grass over here until the grass over there.”
Apparently the road to success is easy, just do things step by step in a sequence, do not be jumping up and down.
Frog who lived in the fields said to the frog who lived at the curb: “Your place is too dangerous, stay with me.” Frogs on the street said: “I’m used to, too lazy to move.” A few days later the frogs “fields” to see the frogs’ edge road “and found that the frog is dead run over by a passing car.
It turned out very easily hold our own destiny, just enough to avoid laziness.
There are a bunch of people walking in the desert, all walking with a heavy, very miserable, only one person who walked with joy. Someone asks: “Why are you so relaxed?” He replied with a laugh: “Because I am a bit of baggage.”
Proved very easy to get joy, not just greedy and have just enough

buat yang sering maen2 HP di pesawat

2007-05-29T07:59:00.000+07:00

Oleh-oleh dari teman, mudah-mudahan bermanfaat.. .
HP dan Penerbangan Pesawat
Saya sedih mendengar terbakarnya pesawat Garuda, GA 200 pada tanggal 7
Maret 2007, pukul 07.00 pagi, jurusan Jakarta-Yogyakarta di Bandara
Adisucipto. Kejadian itu sungguh menyayat hati dan perasaan.

Kemudian saya teringat beberapa bulan yang lalu terbang ke Batam
dengan menggunakan pesawat Garuda juga. Di dalam pesawat duduk
disamping saya seorang warga Jerman. Pada saat itu dia merasa sangat
gusar dan terlihat marah, karena tiba-tiba mendengar suara handphone
tanda sms masuk dari salah satu penumpang, dimana pada saat itu
pesawat dalam posisi mau mendarat. Orang ini terlihat ingin menegur
tetapi tidak berdaya karena bukan merupakan tugasnya.
Langsung saya tanya kenapa tiba-tiba dia bersikap seperti itu,
kemudian dia bercerita bahwa dia adalah manager salah satu perusahaan
industri, dimana dia adalah supervisor khusus mesin turbin. Saat dia
melaksanakan tugasnya tiba-tiba mesin turbin mati, setelah diselidiki
ternyata ada salah satu petugas sedang menggunaka HP didalam ruangan
mesin turbin.
Orang Jerman ini menjelaskan bahwa apabila frekwensi HP dengan mesin
turbin ini kebetulan sama dan sinergi ini akan berakibat mengganggu
jalannya turbin tersebut, lebih fatal lagi berakibat turbin bisa
langsung mati.
Cerita ini langsung saya kaitkan dengan peristiwa diatas, kalau saya
tidak salah mendengar mesin pesawat tiba-tiba mati pada saat mau
mendarat. Mudah-mudahan peristiwa ini bukan akibat HP penumpang.
Semoga tulisan ini bermanfaat untuk masyarakat yang sering bepergian
dengan pesawat.
Rakyat kita ini memang High class.. Handphone nya Mahal, Transportasi
pake pesawat. Tapi bodohnya gk ketulungan. Ada yang gk tau kenapa
larangan itu dibuat, ada yang tau tapi tetap gk peduli. Orang
indonesia harus selalu belajar dengan cara yang keras.
Buat yang belum tahu, kenapa Gk boleh menyalakan Handphone di pesawat,
berikut penjelasannya:
Sekedar untuk informasi saja, mungkin rekan-rekan semua sudah
mendengar berita mengenai kecelakaan pesawat yang baru "take-off" dari
Lanud Polonia -Medan. Sampai saat ini penyebab kejadian tersebut belum
diketahui dengan pasti.
Mungkin sekedar sharing saja buat kita semua yang memiliki dan
menggunakan ponsel/telpon genggam atau apapun istilahnya. Ternyata
menurut sumber informasi yang didapat dari ASRS (Aviation Safety
Reporting System) bahwa ponsel mempunyai kontributor yang besar
terhadap keselamatan penerbangan. Sudah banyak kasus kecelakaan
pesawat terbang yang terjadi akibatkan oleh ponsel. Mungkin informasi
dibawah ini dapat bermanfaat untuk kita semua, terlebih yang sering
menggunakan pesawat terbang.
Contoh kasusnya antara lain:
Pesawat Crossair dengan nomor penerbangan LX498 baru saja "take-off"
dari bandara Zurich , Swiss. Sebentar kemudian pesawat menukik jatuh.
Sepuluh penumpangnya tewas. Penyelidik menemukan bukti adanya gangguan
sinyal ponsel terhadap sistem kemudi pesawat.
Sebuah pesawat Slovenia Air dalam penerbangan menuju Sarajevo
melakukan pendaratan darurat karena sistem alarm di kokpit penerbang
terus meraung-raung. Ternyata, sebuah ponsel di dalam kopor dibagasi
lupa dimatikan, dan menyebabkan gangguan terhadap sistem navigasi.
Boeing 747 Qantas tiba-tiba miring ke satu sisi dan mendaki lagi
setinggi 700 kaki justru ketika sedang "final approach" untuk
"landing" di bandara Heathrow, London. Penyebabnya adalah karena tiga
penumpang belum mematikan komputer, CD player, dan electronic game
masing-masing (The Australian, 23-9-1998).
Seperti kita tahu di Indonesia ? Begitu roda-roda pesawat menjejak
landasan, langsung saja terdengar bunyi beberapa ponsel yang baru saja
diaktifkan.
Para "pelanggar hukum" itu seolah-olah tak mengerti, bahwa perbuatan
mereka dapat mencelakai penumpang lain, disamping merupakan gangguan
(nuisance) terhadap kenyamanan orang lain.
Dapat dimaklumi, mereka pada umumnya memang belum memahami tatakrama
menggunakan ponsel, disamping juga belum mengerti bahaya yang dapat
ditimbulkan ponsel dan alat elektronik lainnya terhadap sistem
navigasi dan kemudi pesawat terbang. Untuk itulah ponsel harus
dimatikan, tidak hanya di-switch agar tidak berdering selama berada di
dalam pesawat.
Berikut merupakan bentuk ganguan-gangguan yang terjadi di pesawat:
Arah terbang melenceng,Indikator HSI (Horizontal Situation Indicator)
terganggu, Gangguan penyebab VOR (VHF Omnidirectional Receiver) tak
terdengar, Gangguan sistem navigasi, Gangguan frekuensi komunikasi,
Gangguan indikator bahan bakar,Gangguan sistem kemudi otomatis, Semua
gangguan diatas diakibatkan oleh ponsel, sedangkan gangguan lainnya
seperti Gangguan arah kompas komputer diakibatkan oleh CD & game
Gangguan indikator CDI (Course Deviation Indicator) diakibatkan oleh
gameboy Semua informasi diatas adalah bersumber dari ASRS.
Dengan melihat daftar gangguan diatas kita bisa melihat bahwa bukan
saja ketika pesawat sedang terbang, tetapi ketika pesawat sedang
bergerak di landasan pun terjadi gangguan yang cukup besar akibat
penggunaan ponsel.
Kebisingan pada headset para penerbang dan terputus-putusnya suara
mengakibatkan penerbang tak dapat menerima instruksi dari menara
pengawas dengan baik.
Untuk diketahui, ponsel tidak hanya mengirim dan menerima gelombang
radio melainkan juga meradiasikan tenaga listrik untuk menjangkau BTS
(Base Transceiver Station). Sebuah ponsel dapat menjangkau BTS yang
berjarak 35 kilometer. Artinya, pada ketinggian 30.000 kaki, sebuah
ponsel bisa menjangkau ratusan BTS yang berada dibawahnya. (Di Jakarta
saja diperkirakan ada sekitar 600 BTS yang semuanya dapat sekaligus
terjangkau oleh sebuah ponsel aktif di pesawat terbang yang sedang
bergerak di atas Jakarta ).
Sebagai mahluk modern, sebaiknya kita ingat bahwa pelanggaran hukum
adalah juga pelanggaran etika. Tidakkah kita malu dianggap sebagai
orang yang tidak peduli akan keselamatan orang lain, melanggar hukum,
dan sekaligus tidak tahu tata krama?
Sekiranya bila kita naik pesawat, bersabarlah sebentar. Semua orang
tahu kita memiliki ponsel. Semua orang tahu kita sedang bergegas.
Semua orang tahu kita orang penting. Tetapi, demi keselamatan sesama,
dan demi sopan santun menghargai sesama, janganlah mengaktifkan ponsel
selama di dalam pesawat terbang.
Semoga suatu hari rakyat kita bisa sedikit lebih pintar.

To love without saying something

2007-05-23T15:05:00.000+07:00

One day I was treated to eat noodles at a famous noodle shop. The price is not expensive and it’s really delicious. We sat at a long table that can accommodate about ten people when the round table. The table was filled with six people, me, my friend and four visitors.
While eating, a new family sitting near us. Exactly among my friends and other visitors. They have been ordered noodles and waiting. The family consists of a couple who are still young and a child who was about six years.

Their families far from simple. His clothes were a bit dull and smelly. The child had apparently recovered from an illness that we do not know and were pulled out of his nose. Snot like number eleven, and sometimes like a number one with a yellow-green. The mother lovingly wiped the snot that does not stop in and out of her nose. The couple was very happy to see her son play with a laugh. It seems to eat noodles is a celebration to welcome her recovery.
When the family arrived noodles eaten with relish. The situation is not applicable for all of us except my friends. For the five of us (including me) it is a disaster and torture. Imagine wrote, what it’s like eating noodles with a family who kissed his bad smell. Yet to see and hear the snot who pulled out and cleaned occasionally by his mother. Every time eating noodles while drinking the liquid, it’s like snot has been mixed with food and makes appetite loss. Soon, the four customers who sat at the table with us left the table one by one, without taking food. This view is a sense of bitterness that emanated diwajah young families, such as low self-esteem and alienation see my attitude and the four other guests.
But it did not last long, especially when they see my friend, cheer them recover. My friend still enjoy the noodles with all kecuekannya. As if there was no smell around it and no sound is heard snot. I can not do much besides learn cool and spent the rest of noodles. Anyway I treated to dinner and not entitled to file things weird and rude.
After lunch, we were seated twenty minutes before leaving the store of food. I am surprised with the behavior of my friends outside of his habit. Usually after eating, he just sat at a long ten minutes. Once again I have to follow the will of my friend in exasperation.
Eventually we walked out of the shop and a young family, I felt relieved. On the way home, my friend said he was very disturbed to sit next to these families. He felt a sense of smell and feeling annoyed with her snot sound. He felt just as I did.
My friend also said that if he left the family when they rejoice, the family will feel devastated, worthless, isolated and desperate. The husband was giving the best for his family. They rejoice in celebrating his son’s recovery. The husband has spent money for them quite expensive from the hard work only to give the best for his family. Money is not so much to our size but not for the family.
I was very surprised to hear the narrative of my friends. And do not think my friend has done something extraordinary for the family. In her typical, noodle stand and wait until they run out twenty minutes after eating, has given a new spirit for the family.
I remembered how to feel bitterness, low self-esteem and alienation in the face of both husband and wife when he saw the other customers left the table without taking food and see my behavior. I also remember how happy the couple returned once saw my friend being ignorant.
First time in my life, I realize and see how to love each other without saying anything really not impossible. This is truly a miracle. Magic how about loving people can be realized without the words in such a short time. Quite simply by continuing to eat noodles until they run out.
The hell with my attitude and other visitors who are not praiseworthy. Menunggu dua puluh menit setelah selesai makan. The latter contain her scent to improve everything has demonstrated a miracle of love and carried out by a friend.
Magic how my friend warn me without saying anything. He was not charged but badly enough to hit me. I felt very shocked, embarrassed but not angry. I remind myself again how easy it is to say love your neighbor but do not do it.

True Love

2007-05-23T11:54:00.000+07:00

My husband is an engineer, I love nature I love nature and the warm feeling that comes when I bersander on his broad shoulders. Three years of acquaintance and courtship, until now, two years of marriage, I must admit, that I was getting tired with all this, the reason I loved the 2 first time, has turned into something exhausting. I am a sentimental woman and right-2 sensitive and highly-strung, I missed romantic moments like a child who wants candy. And my husband opposite of me, feeling less sensitive, and its inability to create a romantic atmosphere in our marriage had broken my expectations about love.

One day, I finally decided to tell him my decision, that I wanted a divorce. “Why?”, He asked with surprise. “I’m tired, too many reasons in this world”, said saya.Dia silent and pensive throughout the night with a cigarette that is not unfailing. My disappointment grew, a man who can not even express their feelings, let alone what I can expect from him? And finally he asked, “What can I do to change your mind?”
Someone said, changing the personality of another person is difficult and it’s true, I think, I began to lose confidence that I can change the personality. I looked deep into his eyes and replied softly, “I have a question for you, if you can find the answer in my heart, I’ll change my mind. If I say, like a flower on a mountain cliff, and we both know that if you climbing the mountain, you will die. Are you going to do it for me? ”
He said, “I’ll give the answer tomorrow.” My heart immediately upset to hear the response. The next morning, he was not there at home, and I saw a piece of paper with scribbled-2an hand under a glass of warm milk that said ….
“My wife Honey, I’m not going to take that interest you, but allow me to explain why.” The first sentence of this break my heart. I continue to read it again.
“You can just type in the computer and always disrupt the program in its PCs and eventually crying in front of the monitor, I have to give my 2 fingers so I can help to improve the program. You always forget to bring the house keys when you leave the house, and I need to provide my legs so I could go home broke, opening the door for you. Do you like road-2 was out of town but always stray in 2 new places that you visit, I had to give my eyes to direct you. You’re always sore-2 at the time ” your best friend “comes every month, I had to give my hand to massage your feet are sore. You like quiet in the house, and I’m afraid you will be” weird “. I have to give my mouth to tell jokes and stories-2-2 to heal boredom. You always looked at your computer and that’s not good for the health of your eyes, I must keep my eyes so that when later we are old, I can still help your nails mengguntingkan and ubanmu plucking. I’ll hold your hand, explore the beach, enjoying the sunshine and the beautiful sand . Tell-2 flower colors that you shine like your pretty face? Also, my dear, I am quite sure there are many people who loved you more than I love you. I’m not going to take the flower and then die. ”
My tears fell on his writing and makes the ink menjadikabur and I read again … “And now my dear, you’ve finished reading my answer, if you are satisfied with all these answers, please open the door of our house, I was standing there with fresh milk and your favorite bread?” I immediately opened the door and saw a curious face with his hand on milk and bread.
Oh, I believe, no one has ever loved me like he did and knew I had to forget the “flower” itself? That’s life, or should say, in love, when one is surrounded by love, then the feeling began to fade away and when we ignore the true love that is between peace and lonely? Love shows a variety of forms, even in the form of a very small and shallow, or even do not have forms, can also in a form that does not want us to know? Flowers, a moment of romance is just the beginning of the relationship.
On top of all this, the pillar of true love to stand and that’s our life.